John Harrity Shares His Personal Caregiving Journey in Washington Lawyer
In the January/February 2026 issue of Washington Lawyer – DC Bar, John Harrity, co-managing partner at Harrity & Harrity LLP, opens up about his experience as a full-time caregiver while maintaining his responsibilities as a law firm leader. The article, “The Hidden Burden of Attorney Caregivers,” explores the emotional and logistical complexities faced by legal professionals who provide care for aging or terminally ill family members.
John recounts caring for his mother after she was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer. Like many caregivers, he juggled a full work schedule, intense emotional demands, and end-of-life care — often working from his mothers bedside in the home office he converted into a bedroom for her during the pandemic. His story is a powerful reminder that even in high-pressure professions like law, empathy and flexibility are essential.
“It probably would have been different if I was an associate at a law firm where I had a billing requirement,” Harrity says. “If I were, I would hope that the law firm would accommodate me in a situation where I would be taking care of my mother at her end of life. But at my firm, we have such a great environment. When you hire correctly, you can hand off critical things with full confidence if you’re going through something like caregiving.”
“If I was not able to work remotely, it would have been exponentially worse,” Harrity adds.
The article sheds light on the broader issue of caregiver burnout within the legal community. With 7 in 10 caregivers balancing paid employment and care duties, and over 60% being women, the caregiving burden is deeply felt but seldom spoken about.
John’s experience underscores the importance of workplace flexibility, supportive teams, and destigmatizing conversations about caregiving in law. His openness reflects Harrity & Harrity’s commitment to empathy, balance, and resilience, values that are core to both its culture and its leadership.
Read the full article in Washington Lawyer (DC Bar) here.


